Posted: 10/31/2007
Having the right mindset is one of, if not THE, most important aspect of the game. Going in head first will only destroy any chance you have of hooking up with the girl and also destroyany confidence you may have gained. Luckily, I am writing this article with you beginners in mind, and I am going to tell you about the mindset you should have before you go ruining your chance with that hot babe you have always wanted to approach.
So let me guess. At the minute whilst sitting in front of your PC reading this, you are thinking that looks are the deciding factor and that no self-respecting hot babe is going to find you attractive, right? WRONG. The Player said it best when he said "Game is all that matters" and he's right!
If you respect yourself and believe in yourself then other people will respect you. If you have the mindset and the body language that suggests you are unconfident and have low self-esteem then people are going to see that as an oppertunity to use you and walk all over you. Believe me, I have been their, we all have many moons ago.
So, rule number 1 - get yourself some respect! At the end of the day you are a human just like everybody else. Rather than WISHING you could be the guy who gets hot babes, BECOME the guy who gets hot babe. Get some self respect and believe you can do anything, because you can! At the end of the day YOU CHOOSE YOUR OWN DESTINY. If you want to do something and you make the effort then you will achieve it!
Rule number 2 - become the prize. You deserve a hot babe and any self respecting hot babe deserves to have you. And they know this. You have respect in yourself, you believe in yourself and you are confident. You don't settle for what you can get, you pick and choose who you want to be with and who you want to sleep with. Become that damn trophy that the women craves for!
Rule number 3 - It's her loss. If she rejects you then she is loosing out on the greatest thing walking the planet. She won't find anyone else like you remember, you are the prize. If you get rejected then just excuse yourself and find someone who knows the next best thing to God has just started talking to her!!
Follow these 3 rules, walk with confidence and don't be affraid to approach and you will be reeling the hot babes in on a thread. BE THE ALPHA, BE THE PRIZE and I guarantee you will start pulling the hotties left, right and center
Source: http://becomeaplayer.com/articles/programmingyourmind.htm
9 Comments
User: Not Registered
Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: Wow he was pissed..can't blame him though
User: Not Registered
Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: Dumbass, shouldnt cheate in the house
User: lindacaligal
Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: Assholes like this need to be exposed
User: Not Registered
Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: should have hit him and her with that bat
User: pajamamama
Posted: 6/17/2009
Comment: omg thats so fucked up dude.
User: pajamamama
Posted: 6/17/2009
Comment: haha wow dude. damn.
User: Not Registered
Posted: 8/26/2009
Comment: Un beleeivBLE
User: Symbiotic
Posted: 9/3/2009
Comment: Met this guy named Aly Ashley Jash (if thats even his real name) in New York....always wore Banana Republic sweaters and his thinning hair down...Dated this smooth, slick lying cassanova too...said he wanted to have children with me and then he cheats on me with my roommate oneday when I went to pick up dinner! Needless to say, my roommate was evicted off my lease. What really pissed me off is I was going to have his children and maybe marry him. (Thank God I didnt!)..Ladies, stay away! He lives in New York in Greenwich Village and is an utter player. I wish I could singe his thinning hair off for good!
User: Not Registered
Posted: 9/24/2009
Comment: HAhahahah LOL!