Anonymous commented on 1/6/2010
What if your libido is not as great as your BF, and he seeks relief elsewhere? I've found my BF propositioning to me someone online. Is an open relationship acceptable these days?
Anonymous commented on 2/8/2011
found out my gay boyfriend cheated on me, i think he really likes our relationship and doesn't want to loose me. i offered the open relationship or even the thought of three he wanted nothing to do with it. i am still with him but trust issues i am going to have for some time. if he wants more i would rather do the threesome scene then i have a choice of who and what goes on plus i can join if i would feel like it. plus i could make sure protection is used to lessen the chance of std. hope this has helped all relationships are hard but as humans we manage
Anonymous commented on 10/17/2011
My partner is cheating on me and it seems the situation may turn similar to the second comment from 2/8/2011. We have been together for over 4 years now but only have lived together for 2 and a half years. I found out he was cheating on me through reading his phone. Reading somebody's phone is a bad way to find out and I can't bring it to myself to tell him I know for fear of exposing I read his phone. He was hooking up with a couple different people back in Aug. Seemed as though he was just looking to blow these men that came into my house while I was gone. Anyhow I gave my mans number to a friend of mine from many years ago and had him pretend to have gotten his number from one of my man's hookups. In return my friend then forwarded me all the conversations between the two. I was going to set it up to walk in on my man playing with my friend. They were talking a lot for days and then something scared my man away and he told my friend to get lost. Now I have seen other messages from two different guys a few weeks ago. I know he is looking for somebody regular to play with. I don't don't get it because he doesn't act sexual with me at all. We don't even make out but I love him and I know he loves me. I want to let him know that I know. To be honest I wouldn't care if he did if at same time he was sexual with me but he leads me on to believe he has a problem sexually. It bothers me that he wants to please other men but not me. DO I talk to him and we do the 3 some thing or keep it open or what
Anonymous commented on 12/20/2012
I been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, we lived together for 4 yrs. i started noticing things about 2 yrs ago but let it slide, recently i found a txt he sent in his phone to someone else saying "Get some rest my love :) i love you so much dont ever forget that! you're the only one for me." i confronted him about it and he was speechless at first then he told me he put it in there to see if i would snoop thru his phone. He took his things and left. Its been 2 weeks and hes still not back with me, the only reason i looked in his phone was because alot of other things i noticed, an unused condom in the back of the truck, hes been going into work nearly 2 hrs. early and staying an hr. late and hes been keeping the truck immaculate inside and out and hes been regularly getting his hair cut along with buying new clothes. Also i noticed he didnt mention christmas shopping this year and when i asked him he told me christmas is just another day and he cant spend it with me he will be at his relatives. He used to buy me cards sometimes but that has stopped also. he also didnt get me anything for my birthday. The other day he came over for a few hours and when i got in his truck there was a bitten off fingernail on the passenger side door panel, it was a mans because it looked dirty, i asked him how that got there and he replied "I dont know! maybe its mine" it was on the passenger side, also there were 2 McDonalds cups in the center console. I know anyone else would kick his butt to the curb but he wont come back and has told me "to just move on we can still be close friends" but then he says he wants to come back but can't right now and to give him some time, I also asked him if theres another guy hes seeing and that i dont care i wont be mad but he continually says "There is no one. there is no other guy" i don't get it. He also tells me that if i want to get with someone he will let me for the time being so i dont go without. Im about to say get lost!.im tired of this drama it's either me or the other guy (if there is one), no inbetween. What should i do? with all those signs do you think he could be cheating? lol
Anonymous commented on 4/1/2013
Ugh