Who‘s a Cheater
Caught My Husband Cheating
Caught your husband with another woman? So, what happens now? How are you going to get through with this incident or how are you going to position yourself now? What will happen to the kids? What will you do now? Should you leave him? What if this was all a misunderstanding?
These questions are the most common questions that have been asked by women to themselves or their close friends during such incidents after catching their husbands with another woman. It is indeed very hard to strategically place oneself to a better position since nobody is sure on what the other party would react to.
Of course, the usual behaviour towards cheating husbands is sheer anger and instantaneous thoughts about moving out or getting a breather by asking for space, but after that subsides, what then? Will you just let time heal these bad memories? It is indeed an itch that would be hard to scratch for it will always be embedded in one’s mind. Here are some basic suggestions on how to properly handle a situation:
1. Do not escalate the situation by running towards and hitting your husband after catching him with another woman. It might be a misunderstanding. All one has to do is take a photo of them together instead of making a scene. This way, one would be able to avoid a situation wherein the wife might be the one who is wrong.
2. Talk to your husband in a mild mannered way once he comes home. Cheating husbands are always rash in finding a quick alibi to get out of a situation. As a wife, this is the make or break part wherein you would know if your husband is cheating or not. Always stay calm on situations like this because great characters can be revealed if one does not go down to the same level as the cheating husband. It is in fact a good position for you as this is the high ground.
3. Go to your close friends or family at once if ever it is revealed that your husband indeed cheating on you. Remember that they will always be there for you in situations like this.
4. Cheating husbands are always hard to negotiate with especially if they are in the wrong. You can always ask your friends or families to help you mediate with this problem in order to close this book or chapter in your life in the right footing as mediation is the key to diffusing any kind of situation. Hoping that this article would help you find the right way in properly dealing in such situations. Thank you.
Anonymous commented on 11/1/2010