How to Behave on a First Date

Posted: 10/30/2007

Well if you have managed to arrange a date with a girl, you have done a lot of the hard work. However, for some guys it often unravels on the first date, usually because the date becomes boring or uncomfortable. Two things might happen, she might say “let’s just be friends” and you might lose the chance of a relationship with her, or she just might not want to see you again. How do you ensure a 1st date goes smoothly and makes her want to see you again?
 

Treat her like she is already your girlfriend.

You can often tell a couple that are on a first date. Likewise you can tell a couple that has been together a long time. The difference is very clear in body language, the way they react to each other, and how comfortable they look. A pretty girl has had plenty of awkward and uncomfortable first dates. The best way to be comfortable is to imagine that she is already your girlfriend. You should be casual in the way you speak to her, not find silences uncomfortable, smile, be relaxed. When you are at ease, she will be at ease. When you are uncomfortable, she will be uncomfortable.
 

Make her feel something

To make a truly memorable first date, the girls emotions should not be flat. Imagine her mood like the line on a polygraph, her emotions should be spiking every now and then. A conversation that doesn’t cause any of those spikes is usually boring. So what things will make her feel something:

  • Playfully teasing her.
     
  • Talking about things she loves or is passionate about.
     
  • Introducing sexual tension by the way you look at her.
     
  • Talking passionately about things in your own life.
     
  • Making her imagine experiences.
     
  • Uncovering memories with emotions attached.
     

Find Connections

You have connections to pretty much every human being. By asking open questions and asking things like: “what is something you love to do?” You will be able to find out what she cares about, and the things that we can connect on. The conversation needs to be free flowing and not on rails, so use any new information she gives you to explore new topics.
 

Stay out of the “friend zone”

How do you make sure you put yourself in the lover category and don’t get the “let’s just be friends” speech? The fastest way to the friends zone is to act like an acquaintance by having a casual conversation about surface topics that don’t make her feel anything. Don’t do that. What else? They touch and look at the girl in a non-sexual way. Throw in some touching that only boyfriends do – nudging, tiggling, poking, hand holding, and look at her in a seductive way now and then. Be polite, gentlemanly, and respectful but also tease a bit. Mix it up!

Getting a girl on a first date is the hard part. It usually means she is attracted to you and once on the date, it is in your hands. Remember that most guys will act the same way and ask the same boring questions and be uncomfortable. If you can be different to all the others, you’ll stand out in a positive way and she’ll want to see you again and again.




 


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Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: Wow he was pissed..can't blame him though
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Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: should have hit him and her with that bat
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Posted: 5/13/2010
Comment: That is awesome and what a sick man. Poor wife has to be just in a state of mind I cant even describe.
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Posted: 6/17/2010
Comment: cheaters suck
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Posted: 7/6/2010
Comment: SCARED BUT IT REAL HAPPEN
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Posted: 7/11/2010
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Posted: 7/29/2010
Comment: Yes it can and does happen. The anger mostly stems from the fact that the other person is constantly lying when they get questioned or confronted, so by the time the hard evidence shows up you are really mad cause if you had the truth the situation could have been handled differently.
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Posted: 8/4/2010
Comment: Refel Rushing, Waxahachie, Tx drunk dialed me at 4 am to see if I got home okay. We had not been out that night. First red flag of many to follow. Relationship from hell with a serial liar. story here http://www.filthyliar.com/dev/viewPhoto.php?fileID=50800217
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Posted: 8/27/2010
Comment: good ting that you did it. There are some Philippine deaf who are married to american deaf and they cheat their husbands while they were waiting for their visa got approved. So those cheating deaf wife from philippines enjoyed dollar remittances and spend money with their bedmates who are either another deaf, or their ex bf, or their cousin, or their uncle, or a neighbor, or a driver, or a guard, or a policeman. after meeting them in a place she instructed them where to meet them thru text messaging; she fed them in fast food then go to hotel they want. Mind you, many deaf girls in the philippines do not go to 1 hotel with different men. they go to other hotels with other boys. and after sex, they gave money which they received from their stupid american deaf husband.
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Posted: 9/7/2010
Comment: With all the things going wrong I think God was giving this guy a chance to walk away and stop
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Posted: 9/21/2010
Comment: hahaha hearing boy made deaf girl his fishwife. deaf girl made their husband cuckhold, asshole really many married deaf girls are a bunch of mother fuckers.
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Posted: 9/26/2010
Comment: Vilma and Rod are both Philippine deaf who migrated to USA. They have been married for more than 10 years in the Philippine and came to USA as childless deaf couples. After spending nearly 4 years in Los Angeles, Vilma showed signs of personal differences and goes out of the house even without telling Rod. Rod began to suspect about his wife Vilma. And Rod get in touch with Vilma's friend in their neighborhood asking if they know where his wife going and who with her. Things between two deaf couples began a big trouble and Vilma packed up her things and flew back to the philippine since vilma is the working while Rod is just hanging around with his friends and most do not have any work at all. Since Vilma is the dollar earner, she spent most of the time outside and went home past 7pm. Arguements, deliberations and beatings from her idle husband made Vilma decided to flew back to the Philippine. While in the Philippine Vilma met and see old beaus, friends and others.....Rod on the hand have been looking for his wife. . . . . until 1 day he just learned his wife was already back in homeland leaving him penniless and could not afford to buy plane ticket, pay for his visa and passport. He could not get in touch with his wife and depression, frustration and embarrasment made Rod gone mentally insane and lost his mind. His story is pitiful because all started with a deaf cheating wife.
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Posted: 9/26/2010
Comment: Vilma and Rod are both Philippine deaf who migrated to USA. They have been married for more than 10 years in the Philippine and came to USA as childless deaf couples. After spending nearly 4 years in Los Angeles, Vilma showed signs of personal differences and goes out of the house even without telling Rod. Rod began to suspect about his wife Vilma. And Rod get in touch with Vilma's friend in their neighborhood asking if they know where his wife going and who with her. Things between two deaf couples began a big trouble and Vilma packed up her things and flew back to the philippine since vilma is the working while Rod is just hanging around with his friends and most do not have any work at all. Since Vilma is the dollar earner, she spent most of the time outside and went home past 7pm. Arguements, deliberations and beatings from her idle husband made Vilma decided to flew back to the Philippine. While in the Philippine Vilma met and see old beaus, friends and others.....Rod on the hand have been looking for his wife. . . . . until 1 day he just learned his wife was already back in homeland leaving him penniless and could not afford to buy plane ticket, pay for his visa and passport. He could not get in touch with his wife and depression, frustration and embarrasment made Rod gone mentally insane and lost his mind. His story is pitiful because all started with a deaf cheating wife.
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Posted: 10/20/2010
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Posted: 11/9/2010
Comment: my name is afra n my husband name is javed i want to know wheter he loves me or not plz send me mail on sara_rakhange@yahoo.com
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Posted: 1/8/2011
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Posted: 2/9/2011
Comment: ...I don't see why it matters that she's deaf. And I'm not plus-sized, but not every man likes a skinny woman. Granted, he shouldn't be cheating but I don't understand why the title says "...cheats with a fat, deaf woman." That's offensive. Deaf doesn't equal stupid. If a guy cheats with someone, it's just that: CHEATING. nothing else.
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Posted: 6/15/2011
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Posted: 8/20/2011
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Posted: 9/19/2011
Comment: Recently a friend told me a story how her friend got married with chatmate who promised her to enjoy life once she decide to marry him and live later in the East Coast. Thru chat and emails, the East Coast man showed off pictures of a big house and a garage with 2 different vehicles (SUV and a car) East Coast man boasted that he own the house and the vehicles. Then of late, showered her with 150 dollars monthly.. . . . to make story shorter, the East Coast man went to the girl's place then marriage was prepared/planned within the next weeks. after their wedding, they hied off to spend honeymoon. until the East Coast man went flew back to the land of milk and honey. While waiting for the visa to be approved, East Coast man showered her 400 dollars a month with instruction to save money so she can fly to the milk and honey. . . she dream. But the girl, spend all the money with other boys. . . Monday she would meet mechanic she know. Tuesday she will meet a driver. WEdnesday she will meet a policeman Thrusday she will took a rest Friday she will meet a guard Saturday she will meet her ex teacher Sunday she will meet her former classmate. With those days in the week, all ended up in hotel with the girl paying all the bills and food and then after bidding adieu she will give the boys few hundred bucks. What do you call for that girl? What do you call to her stupid cuckold husband? After her visa got approval, she went to the land of milk and holy and her husband boasted to her neighborhood, community and relatives "This is my wife. . . ." but could not tell This is my fucking wife from Asia' Now the girl live with him, she found out that her husband who showed her a big house and 2 vehicles in the emails are not his. . . but of his neighbor. To meet both ends, the girls now work for him. . . . while his husband stays home to sleep, eat, drink and enjoy life. . . . . MORAL LESSON: do not marry man who showed off their house and cars. . . they are not his. . . . but his neighbor owned them
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Posted: 1/28/2012
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