Having the right mindset is one of, if not THE, most important aspect of the game. Going in head first will only destroy any chance you have of hooking up with the girl and also destroyany confidence you may have gained. Luckily, I am writing this article with you beginners in mind, and I am going to tell you about the mindset you should have before you go ruining your chance with that hot babe you have always wanted to approach.
So let me guess. At the minute whilst sitting in front of your PC reading this, you are thinking that looks are the deciding factor and that no self-respecting hot babe is going to find you attractive, right? WRONG. The Player said it best when he said "Game is all that matters" and he's right!
If you respect yourself and believe in yourself then other people will respect you. If you have the mindset and the body language that suggests you are unconfident and have low self-esteem then people are going to see that as an oppertunity to use you and walk all over you. Believe me, I have been their, we all have many moons ago.
So, rule number 1 - get yourself some respect! At the end of the day you are a human just like everybody else. Rather than WISHING you could be the guy who gets hot babes, BECOME the guy who gets hot babe. Get some self respect and believe you can do anything, because you can! At the end of the day YOU CHOOSE YOUR OWN DESTINY. If you want to do something and you make the effort then you will achieve it!
Rule number 2 - become the prize. You deserve a hot babe and any self respecting hot babe deserves to have you. And they know this. You have respect in yourself, you believe in yourself and you are confident. You don't settle for what you can get, you pick and choose who you want to be with and who you want to sleep with. Become that damn trophy that the women craves for!
Rule number 3 - It's her loss. If she rejects you then she is loosing out on the greatest thing walking the planet. She won't find anyone else like you remember, you are the prize. If you get rejected then just excuse yourself and find someone who knows the next best thing to God has just started talking to her!!
Follow these 3 rules, walk with confidence and don't be affraid to approach and you will be reeling the hot babes in on a thread. BE THE ALPHA, BE THE PRIZE and I guarantee you will start pulling the hotties left, right and center
Source: http://becomeaplayer.com/articles/programmingyourmind.htm
Comments
34 Comments
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Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: Wow he was pissed..can't blame him though
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Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: Dumbass, shouldnt cheate in the house
User: lindacaligal
Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: Assholes like this need to be exposed
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Posted: 6/12/2009
Comment: should have hit him and her with that bat
User: pajamamama
Posted: 6/17/2009
Comment: omg thats so fucked up dude.
User: pajamamama
Posted: 6/17/2009
Comment: haha wow dude. damn.
User: Not Registered
Posted: 8/26/2009
Comment: Un beleeivBLE
User: Symbiotic
Posted: 9/3/2009
Comment: Met this guy named Aly Ashley Jash (if thats even his real name) in New York....always wore Banana Republic sweaters and his thinning hair down...Dated this smooth, slick lying cassanova too...said he wanted to have children with me and then he cheats on me with my roommate oneday when I went to pick up dinner! Needless to say, my roommate was evicted off my lease. What really pissed me off is I was going to have his children and maybe marry him. (Thank God I didnt!)..Ladies, stay away! He lives in New York in Greenwich Village and is an utter player. I wish I could singe his thinning hair off for good!
User: Not Registered
Posted: 9/24/2009
Comment: HAhahahah LOL!
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Posted: 7/14/2010
Comment: do you have the full episode of this? were their graphic parts of this episode? i was hoping they would put this on the uncensored version. thanks.
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Posted: 7/24/2010
Comment: Good for you, as long as you didn't put that much(if at all) money towards that car. By the way, horse shit from her horse woulda been alot cooler. Unless that's what it is, I'm not professional of course so i can't be sure. Nice video. Happy valentines day, bitch.
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Posted: 8/27/2010
Comment: good ting that you did it. There are some Philippine deaf who are married to american deaf and they cheat their husbands while they were waiting for their visa got approved. So those cheating deaf wife from philippines enjoyed dollar remittances and spend money with their bedmates who are either another deaf, or their ex bf, or their cousin, or their uncle, or a neighbor, or a driver, or a guard, or a policeman. after meeting them in a place she instructed them where to meet them thru text messaging; she fed them in fast food then go to hotel they want. Mind you, many deaf girls in the philippines do not go to 1 hotel with different men. they go to other hotels with other boys. and after sex, they gave money which they received from their stupid american deaf husband.
User: Not Registered
Posted: 9/14/2010
Comment: I'm really sorry for the wife of the cheater. I could say some really ugly things about the cheater, but instead, I want to encourage the wife to hold her head up and worry about herself and her child/children. Life does not stop here. You can make it. I know you can.
God Bless you, and please, I beg you..... BE STRONG!!!
User: Not Registered
Posted: 9/21/2010
Comment: hahaha
hearing boy made deaf girl his fishwife.
deaf girl made their husband cuckhold, asshole
really many married deaf girls are a bunch of mother fuckers.
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Posted: 9/26/2010
Comment: Vilma and Rod are both Philippine deaf who migrated to USA. They have been married for more than 10 years in the Philippine and came to USA as childless deaf couples. After spending nearly 4 years in Los Angeles, Vilma showed signs of personal differences and goes out of the house even without telling Rod.
Rod began to suspect about his wife Vilma. And Rod get in touch with Vilma's friend in their neighborhood asking if they know where his wife going and who with her.
Things between two deaf couples began a big trouble and Vilma packed up her things and flew back to the philippine since vilma is the working while Rod is just hanging around with his friends and most do not have any work at all.
Since Vilma is the dollar earner, she spent most of the time outside and went home past 7pm. Arguements, deliberations and beatings from her idle husband made Vilma decided to flew back to the Philippine.
While in the Philippine Vilma met and see old beaus, friends and others.....Rod on the hand have been looking for his wife. . . . . until 1 day he just learned his wife was already back in homeland leaving him penniless and could not afford to buy plane ticket, pay for his visa and passport. He could not get in touch with his wife and depression, frustration and embarrasment made Rod gone mentally insane and lost his mind.
His story is pitiful because all started with a deaf cheating wife.
User: Not Registered
Posted: 9/26/2010
Comment: Vilma and Rod are both Philippine deaf who migrated to USA. They have been married for more than 10 years in the Philippine and came to USA as childless deaf couples. After spending nearly 4 years in Los Angeles, Vilma showed signs of personal differences and goes out of the house even without telling Rod.
Rod began to suspect about his wife Vilma. And Rod get in touch with Vilma's friend in their neighborhood asking if they know where his wife going and who with her.
Things between two deaf couples began a big trouble and Vilma packed up her things and flew back to the philippine since vilma is the working while Rod is just hanging around with his friends and most do not have any work at all.
Since Vilma is the dollar earner, she spent most of the time outside and went home past 7pm. Arguements, deliberations and beatings from her idle husband made Vilma decided to flew back to the Philippine.
While in the Philippine Vilma met and see old beaus, friends and others.....Rod on the hand have been looking for his wife. . . . . until 1 day he just learned his wife was already back in homeland leaving him penniless and could not afford to buy plane ticket, pay for his visa and passport. He could not get in touch with his wife and depression, frustration and embarrasment made Rod gone mentally insane and lost his mind.
His story is pitiful because all started with a deaf cheating wife.
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Posted: 11/9/2010
Comment: my name is afra n my husband name is javed i want to know wheter he loves me or not plz send me mail on sara_rakhange@yahoo.com
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Posted: 12/7/2010
Comment: ups thez're italian (i am too) bad bad words are coming out of her mouth...;-)
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Posted: 12/7/2010
Comment: stupid ass game
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Posted: 12/20/2010
Comment: HAHA
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Posted: 1/24/2011
Comment: so boring game
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Posted: 2/9/2011
Comment: ...I don't see why it matters that she's deaf. And I'm not plus-sized, but not every man likes a skinny woman. Granted, he shouldn't be cheating but I don't understand why the title says "...cheats with a fat, deaf woman." That's offensive. Deaf doesn't equal stupid. If a guy cheats with someone, it's just that: CHEATING. nothing else.
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Posted: 6/14/2011
Comment: Ryan Giggs ( the Manchester United legend) (for those in the US that’s the famous football team ie soccer team) brother Rhodr Giggs , is purportedly ready to forgive his wife Natasha Giggs......this affair is sick. GiggsGate!?
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Posted: 6/15/2011
Comment: My stomach pain while laughing loud because many deaf americans married to philippine native daf girls became asshole cuckhold and bring their philippine wife here in america; shw off to their neighbors; and proudly say wife but can not say my cheating wife. hahahahaha
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Posted: 6/18/2011
Comment: Man I loved it.Such passion I wanted to join in
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Posted: 8/2/2011
Comment: shut up u stupid bitch urboring
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Posted: 8/20/2011
Comment: i wud have beaten him
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Posted: 9/19/2011
Comment: Recently a friend told me a story how her friend got married with chatmate who promised her to enjoy life once she decide to marry him and live later in the East Coast. Thru chat and emails, the East Coast man showed off pictures of a big house and a garage with 2 different vehicles (SUV and a car)
East Coast man boasted that he own the house and the vehicles. Then of late, showered her with 150 dollars monthly.. . . .
to make story shorter, the East Coast man went to the girl's place then marriage was prepared/planned within the next weeks. after their wedding, they hied off to spend honeymoon. until the East Coast man went flew back to the land of milk and honey.
While waiting for the visa to be approved, East Coast man showered her 400 dollars a month with instruction to save money so she can fly to the milk and honey. . . she dream.
But the girl, spend all the money with other boys. . .
Monday she would meet mechanic she know.
Tuesday she will meet a driver.
WEdnesday she will meet a policeman
Thrusday she will took a rest
Friday she will meet a guard
Saturday she will meet her ex teacher
Sunday she will meet her former classmate.
With those days in the week, all ended up in hotel with the girl paying all the bills and food and then after bidding adieu she will give the boys few hundred bucks.
What do you call for that girl?
What do you call to her stupid cuckold husband?
After her visa got approval, she went to the land of milk and holy
and her husband boasted to her neighborhood, community and relatives
"This is my wife. . . ." but could not tell This is my fucking wife from Asia'
Now the girl live with him, she found out that her husband who showed her a big house and 2 vehicles in the emails are not his. . . but of his neighbor.
To meet both ends, the girls now work for him. . . . while his husband stays home to sleep, eat, drink and enjoy life. . . . .
MORAL LESSON: do not marry man who showed off their house and cars. . .
they are not his. . . . but his neighbor owned them
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Posted: 1/15/2012
Comment: FAKE
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Posted: 1/28/2012
Comment: nice good
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Posted: 1/28/2012
Comment: not my business
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Posted: 2/2/2012
Comment: after this clip the boy was found dead XD
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Posted: 4/11/2012
Comment: Not cool
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Posted: 5/7/2012
Comment: Lol tru dat XD ^^