The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women
I want to share an interesting insight with you that not 1 in 100 men ever realize on their own. It's actually TWO insights, but they're two sides of the same coin.
It's an amazingly OBVIOUS double insight, and once you know what it is, you'll see evidence of it all around you, in every interaction between a man and a woman.
And it goes a little sumthin' like this:
1. Most men behave like WUSSIES when it comes to women and dating.
2. Women NEVER feel the powerful and magical emotion called ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.
So let's take them one at a time.
WHAT exactly IS a WUSSY?
A Wussy is a guy who kisses up to women.
A Wussy is a guy who does whatever a woman wants him to do, and doesn't even know if or when a woman is testing him.
A Wussy is a guy who accepts manipulative behavior from women, and doesn't care if a woman flakes out on him, takes advantage of him, or acts overly dramatic around him.
A Wussy is a guy who has no backbone, and caves when challenged by a woman.
A Wussy is a guy who feels that he needs to BUY or PAY FOR a woman's attention and affection with gifts, dinners, compliments, and other forms of payment and flattery... because he can't imagine that a woman would want to be with him just for HIM.
In short, a WUSSY is a submissive man who tries to compensate for his lack of ability to attract women by being overly accommodating and generous.
NEWS JUST IN: MOST MEN ACT LIKE WUSSIES!
And, if that wasn't bad enough, here's the REALLY bad news: Women will NEVER feel ATTRACTION for this kind of behavior, or this kind of guy!
(If you even doubt what I'm saying for a SECOND, then try this simple test: Find 3 attractive women, and ask them if they ever feel a gut-level ATTRACTION for guys who kiss up to them and act like Wussies, and watch what they say.)
Want some even WORSE news?
When this kind of tactic doesn't work for a guy, he'll usually TRY HARDER, and become even MORE of a WUSSY to make a girl like him... and the more a girl runs away, the more of a WUSSY most guys become.
YOU DO THE MATH and figure out the outcome of this equation.
It totally blows my mind how a guy will kiss up to a woman and watch with HIS OWN TWO EYES as she becomes more and more distant... and instead of him realizing that it's his own WUSS behavior that's causing the woman to run away, he just keeps doing it... AND EVEN INCREASING IT!
And how do I know this so well?
Because I, my friend, used to be a BIG TIME Wuss Bag.
Of course, when I think back about situations in my life where I behaved like a Wuss and caused a woman to lose her attraction for me, I slap my head and say "DUH!"
For whatever reason, it just wasn't obvious to me in the moment.
And, I think that MOST guys go their whole lives without realizing this critical insight.
Let me tell you something else that is VITALLY important for you to remember:
WOMEN HAVE MILITARY GRADE WUSS-DETECTION RADAR SYSTEMS.
Notice that I didn't say "Women are pretty good at figuring out whether or not you're a Wuss".
No no noooooo.
I said that women have MILITARY GRADE WUSS- DETECTION SYSTEMS.
I'm talking special forces/navy seal/top gun/ covert ops here.
I'm talking INSTANT WUSSY DETECTION.
A woman can tell if you're a Wussy, in most cases, BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH. And if she hasn't figured it out before you open your mouth, she'll DEFINITELY figure it out once you DO open your pie-hole.
So, if women aren't attracted to Wussies, then why is it that they sometimes accept invitations to dinner, gifts, flowers, and attention from guys who are Wussies, only to reject them later on?
Well, think about it.
1. Free food is free food and free gifts are free gifts...I mean, when the price is right, it's right.
2. Women say to themselves, "I really SHOULD date a nice guy instead of all these SEXY JERKS that I've been seeing. I'll let Mr. Girly Man take me out to dinner a few times and maybe I can learn to like him".
3. If a woman doesn't have anything going on at all, dinner with a Wussy and a constant stream of compliments and attention is better than nothing.
4. Men are NOTORIOUS for showing their "non-Wuss" side early on, but then somehow turning into a woman's worst nightmare Wuss Boy as the relationship progresses.
What to do, what to do?
Well, sometimes these things are like a substance abuse problem. The first step is ADMITTING that you've been being a WUSS all your life, and that you were doing the best you could with what you had to work with.
I often make fun of guys who act like Wussies, and bust on them unmercifully... but the fact is that I've been there, and I get it.
Source: http://becomeaplayer.com/articles/ultimatemistake.htm
Comments
32 Comments
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Posted: 7/9/2009
Comment: DOES ANY KNOW HOW CATCH A CLOSET LESBIAN WHO IS MARIED TO A MAN?
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Posted: 7/20/2009
Comment: it is cheating!
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Posted: 9/16/2009
Comment: i just need the text message and phone numbers off of this phone number704-524-8947
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Posted: 10/12/2009
Comment: It is cheating. My wife has recently destroyed our family through facebook. I am 6-fee tall, weigh 230 pounds, shoot guns, played football and chew tobacco. I am a man, She hurt me like I was a little baby! It's fucking cheating. Don't be told otherwise by anyone else's psycho-babble
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Posted: 1/6/2010
Comment: What if your libido is not as great as your BF, and he seeks relief elsewhere? I've found my BF propositioning to me someone online. Is an open relationship acceptable these days?
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Posted: 5/4/2010
Comment: wow..very well said
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Posted: 5/4/2010
Comment: interesting suggestions
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Posted: 5/13/2010
Comment: That is awesome and what a sick man. Poor wife has to be just in a state of mind I cant even describe.
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Posted: 5/14/2010
Comment: I met a rotten player who had all the signs of a cheater. Free dating sites like plentyoffish is the one he used, profile andy12345a to lie and trick women into sexual encounters. He obviously had been cheating before and knew the things to say and covered his tracks. Calling with phone number blocked from showing up, never inviting to his home, not giving out his work information or last name, ect. He cheats on his spouse and the women he uses to cheat on his spouse with. These sites are full of men like that. The internet has made it easier for them to cheat
User: Not Registered
Posted: 7/6/2010
Comment: SCARED BUT IT REAL HAPPEN
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Posted: 7/11/2010
Comment: Using spy softwaer to catch a cheating spouse.
http://cheating-spouse-software.net/
User: reneeneiman
Posted: 7/15/2010
Comment: Here is a way to post a cheater and a good song to use
Of course, you'll need someone vain enough to have pictures like this in the first place.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOU0JgXu2uQ
User: reneeneiman
Posted: 8/3/2010
Comment: Here is a way to post your cheater. Be sure to use their name and city because it is important to let women know about the cheaters and liars.
My cheater was Refel, Ralph Rushing, Waxahachie, Tx
214.762,1668 posted here on playerblock
Check out this video of my cheater
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOU0JgXu2uQ
User: reneeneiman
Posted: 8/4/2010
Comment: Refel Rushing, Waxahachie, Tx drunk dialed me at 4 am to see if I got home okay. We had not been out that night. First red flag of many to follow. Relationship from hell with a serial liar.
story here
http://www.filthyliar.com/dev/viewPhoto.php?fileID=50800217
User: Not Registered
Posted: 9/13/2010
Comment: HOW TO CATCH A CHEATING SPOUSE
User: BrokenHearted
Posted: 10/13/2010
Comment: It is cheating when their profile states they are single and they never tell the women they are interacting with that they are in a relationship.
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Posted: 12/7/2010
Comment: stupid ass game
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Posted: 1/8/2011
Comment: LOL this is fucking hilarious
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Posted: 1/24/2011
Comment: so boring game
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Posted: 2/8/2011
Comment: found out my gay boyfriend cheated on me, i think he really likes our relationship and doesn't want to loose me. i offered the open relationship or even the thought of three he wanted nothing to do with it. i am still with him but trust issues i am going to have for some time. if he wants more i would rather do the threesome scene then i have a choice of who and what goes on plus i can join if i would feel like it. plus i could make sure protection is used to lessen the chance of std. hope this has helped all relationships are hard but as humans we manage
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Posted: 7/13/2011
Comment: hahahhhaaa!!!!nice try dude..
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Posted: 8/2/2011
Comment: shut up u stupid bitch urboring
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Posted: 10/17/2011
Comment: My partner is cheating on me and it seems the situation may turn similar to the second comment from 2/8/2011. We have been together for over 4 years now but only have lived together for 2 and a half years. I found out he was cheating on me through reading his phone. Reading somebody's phone is a bad way to find out and I can't bring it to myself to tell him I know for fear of exposing I read his phone. He was hooking up with a couple different people back in Aug. Seemed as though he was just looking to blow these men that came into my house while I was gone. Anyhow I gave my mans number to a friend of mine from many years ago and had him pretend to have gotten his number from one of my man's hookups. In return my friend then forwarded me all the conversations between the two. I was going to set it up to walk in on my man playing with my friend. They were talking a lot for days and then something scared my man away and he told my friend to get lost. Now I have seen other messages from two different guys a few weeks ago. I know he is looking for somebody regular to play with. I don't don't get it because he doesn't act sexual with me at all. We don't even make out but I love him and I know he loves me. I want to let him know that I know. To be honest I wouldn't care if he did if at same time he was sexual with me but he leads me on to believe he has a problem sexually. It bothers me that he wants to please other men but not me. DO I talk to him and we do the 3 some thing or keep it open or what
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Posted: 10/21/2011
Comment: Yes my wife started an affair from facebook. Like the guy thats 230 pounds, I feel crushed and have to rebuild myself and hopefully my marriage
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Posted: 12/29/2011
Comment: wow i feel really bad for thet guy she was so stupid she just could of tell him instead of having a baby
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Posted: 12/29/2011
Comment: omg i herd that she was slaping her poor girl
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Posted: 1/15/2012
Comment: FAKE
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Posted: 2/2/2012
Comment: hahah this fcking negros r funny what u want hommie what u want ha what u want but none of them actualy hits the other guy even when they do hit they hit like lesbos hahahahah
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Posted: 2/6/2012
Comment: Best way to catch that cheater
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Posted: 3/12/2012
Comment: She should have killed that bitch.
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Posted: 3/25/2012
Comment: Xgsf
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Posted: 4/19/2012
Comment: this is so faaaaake