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Comment tonya37

on 8/27/2016 9:12:32 PM Says

jeff rohletter The Cheater:

The Comment: cheater and liar in Seneca/Greenville area, manipulative man. Womanizer. Evidences about adultery in court. He got married several times and he cheated on his wives. Take care ladies. this man will tell you he got hurt by the women but it is a manipulation. That is his strategy to get a woman. He Loves prostitution places too.

The State: SC

The Area Code:

Comment Kris10az

on 8/27/2016 8:25:24 AM Says

Todd davis The Cheater:

The Comment: You would not believe it if I told you. Beware

The State: AZ

The Area Code: 480

Comment forensee68

on 8/26/2016 11:46:31 PM Says

Brett Gyllenskog The Cheater:

The Comment: He cheated on me too.

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Patsylynn0323

on 8/26/2016 9:54:49 PM Says

Joron reese The Cheater:

The Comment:

The State: NE

The Area Code: 402

Comment Funnyone

on 8/26/2016 4:32:18 PM Says

Dustin weeks The Cheater:

The Comment: She is with a married man

The State: TN

The Area Code: 731

Comment Dilish42

on 8/26/2016 4:28:32 PM Says

Anthony mcglothen The Cheater:

The Comment: He cheated. With me on his wife and never told me he was married he used to drive for heavenly fish all over upstate new york philly va maryland i found ou he was married through fb and now he works at a burlington warehouse in florence twn ship still cheating on his wife and she is so nice i had the pleasure of talking to her she also forgave me for not knowing he aint shit girls his wife deserves so much better and she is so pretty hell i would date her

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Dilish42

on 8/26/2016 4:17:53 PM Says

Anthony mcglothen The Cheater:

The Comment: Fucking dog

The State: NJ

The Area Code: 08609

Comment Princeslim81

on 8/26/2016 4:11:54 PM Says

Lakeisha williams The Cheater:

The Comment: Maybe she is and maybe she is not.

The State: KS

The Area Code: 731

Comment HardToCope

on 8/25/2016 12:49:32 PM Says

Eric Weiner The Cheater:

The Comment: Practicing Dentist at Great Neck & Mid Island Dental Associates. Caution recommended. Pretends to be a family man, but certainly is not. Unless it's someone else's family.

The State: NY

The Area Code: 516


on 8/25/2016 9:54:12 AM Says

TIM LUTZ The Cheater:


The State: PA

The Area Code:

Comment Nonames

on 8/25/2016 9:23:23 AM Says

Dan Gresley The Cheater:

The Comment:

The State: CA

The Area Code: 805

Comment isittrue1985

on 8/25/2016 6:47:25 AM Says

Dustin Red The Cheater:

The Comment: Really who is this would love to know!! He has been with since mothers day

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment gotyou16

on 8/25/2016 6:44:09 AM Says

Dustin Red The Cheater:

The Comment: Was dating him in may, didn't know we broke up until later in June, he was with a girl and got her pregnant still try's to text me and call me, he probably cheating on this poor gurl also!!

The State: AZ

The Area Code: 85730

Comment Elizabethtown

on 8/23/2016 3:14:27 PM Says

Anthony r Harvey The Cheater:

The Comment: Anthony r Harvey is originally from Jamaica lives in Philadelphia Pennsylvania used to works at Tropical Choice restaurants on 52nd Haverford he got fire for stealing money he likes to lie and tell people he does banking he also works in Construction he likes to use women for money he lies about everything he used his ex-wife to get his papers he married her for his papers he has a daughter from his ex-wife and she has him in court for child support he also got a young girl in her early twenties pregnant by the name of Alicia vulture the baby is one and a half she also have him in court for child support he works at minimum wage job at the refrigeration Factory so he won't have to pay them much child support money what kind of man does that . he takes multiple woman to his apartment in Wynnewood he's 50 years old he doesn't own a house he lives off woman he lives with a woman in Jersey he loves unprotected sex and anal sex and oral he's a nasty disgusting scumbag he goes to the Bryn Mawr New Testament Church in Winfield he loves young girls in their early twenties too early thirties he doesn't want any woman his age he's renting the apartment he lives in for $400 a month he is a false Pretender be careful a wolf in sheep clothes

The State: PA

The Area Code: 215

Comment Fyoustupid

on 8/22/2016 12:38:53 PM Says

Jared Skahill The Cheater:

The Comment: Fucken pussy ass white trash likes to go after married women, he cheated on his first wife multiple times who was smart enough to leave his ass! And then cheated on his 2nd wife who was a dumb ass and believed everything he told her. She really is as gullible and stupid as she looks.

The State: CA

The Area Code: 909

Comment Fyoustupid

on 8/22/2016 12:35:21 PM Says

Jared Skahill The Cheater:

The Comment: Fucken pussy ass white trash likes to go after married women, he cheated on his first wife multiple times who was smart enough to leave his ass! And then cheated on his 2nd wife who was a dumb ass and believed everything he told her. She really is as gullible and stupid as she looks.

The State: CA

The Area Code: 909

Comment Bernadina777

on 8/22/2016 9:10:31 AM Says

Robert James Murphy The Cheater:

The Comment: Robert James Murphy is a lowlife, junkie, sociopath, he manipulates & uses women, he tries to spin false stories that all his exes are bad that they’ve done him wrong but u soon find out it’s him who does the wrong doing, he claims he loves you than lies cheats & even steals from you to support his drug habit, hes stolen money and jewelry from me, he even has hit me several times, he’s been in prison 3 times for fraud, he truly is a con artist! On his last prison sentence I supported him emotionally & financially also while he was in jail, I thought since he was sober for awhile he would change his behavior plus stating he would make up for all the crap he put me through before getting arrested, but boy was I wrong after he was released he repays me by gaslighting me through silence and triangulation, everytime I would cry & get upset he would ignore me for days at a time claiming he was too busy to call or text, he cheated on me with a rather dirty nasty skanky fat redneck whore, Which she will one day find out how he truly is cuz at first he’s a real charmer saying you are the best I’m so glad I found you, the others were so awful etc. but after awhile his true colors come on out, he has threatened me with so many things especially exposing my nude pics & video to post them to various porn sites, and make an ad on Craigslist with my contact info, but the worst is he called my autistic son which he claims that he loved him like his own son he called him retarted but than in same sentence said I hate saying that about him cuz I love him but F**k it, it’s collateral damage! He made me believe he loved my son but I should’ve known better cuz he never has been there for his own kids, his drugs and making money illegally were way more important to him, he’s real demented which stems from his childhood he was beaten as a child from step dads & was molested from his brother, and he lost his virginity to his 1st cousin, his mom is a psychopath so he learned all his dirty deeds from the best! His family is crazy they all have a love/hate relationship towards each other. And everything I’m saying is the truth I have proof of what he’s said and done, I fell for him real hard I had loved him so much, more than I have ever loved any man in my life but that’s what he does he makes sure ur so in love than he traps you and makes you think you will never find anyone that will treat you good ever again so please don’t fall for his evil ways

The State: FL

The Area Code: 34771

Comment Janae

on 8/22/2016 4:03:32 AM Says

Jason williamson The Cheater:

The Comment: He constantly tells me I am crazy he convince people he is a nice guy with a crazy wife

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Janae

on 8/22/2016 4:03:11 AM Says

Jason williamson The Cheater:

The Comment: He constantly tells me I am crazy he convince people he is a nice guy with a crazy wife

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Bh007

on 8/22/2016 2:51:50 AM Says

Davon Roberts The Cheater:

The Comment: Warning Ladies this man is no good first of all he has 12 children which he do nothing for he is very selfish. He will be nice to get anything he wants. He will empty ur bank account!! Then once ur awake on his bs he will drop u or keep u as side meet he has multiple woman at a time. He also has many different Facebook Instagram and Twitter accounts. Don't date this man he will rip your heart out and Eat it..

The State: CA

The Area Code: 323,213

Comment pennsylvaniagirl

on 8/21/2016 9:56:26 PM Says

Darren  Ambler The Cheater:

The Comment: I had posted before about my relationship with Darren Ambler...As much as I wish to move on and forget the dreadful experience- the whole experience is making me more angry.

I have a new and wonderful guy in my life- a real man- not an insecure coward that uses women like Darren Ambler. I still can not believe what a fool he made out of me and god knows how many other women. Darren Ambler has earned the name "Predator"- because that is what he is...

Ladies beware- to my knowledge this sexually obsessed creep is still out preying on us vulnerable females. He is revolting- i must have been going through a rough time in my life to have sex with such a grotesque human being. He is also "Horrible"in bed!

If you see this hidious creature on line / dating websites ignore him and report him to the web administrator. Keep in mind- he is a pathological liar and will attempt to fool anyone. He wants one thing only "SEX"!! and he is very into oral sex....very dirty and sick dude!

He is the most unattractive man I have ever been with. Remember- his breath would choke a horse. Horrible!! He needs to be put out of comission for good....He will only serve to use you and screw up your life- just like his life is screwed up,

Came across these url's lately..I was not a bit surprised only angry knowing I was used and he had other women while with me. He told me he trimmed his pubic hairs just for me//what a weirdo. A guy never said anything like that to me...Darren is strange and perverted. Check out these urls......This guy is bad news./ stay away from him; He may be on line stalking his next prey right now:.



Good luck! One of these websites has photos of his very homely and disturbing face! He looks like a Psycho!

The State: NJ

The Area Code: 215-

Comment ihateplayers111

on 8/20/2016 12:11:25 PM Says

pavel stepanov The Cheater:

The Comment: Infidelity during our marriage.

The State: WA

The Area Code: 209

Comment Tony Raymond Keen

on 8/20/2016 9:41:25 AM Says

Tony Raymond Keen The Cheater:

The Comment: I am 37 years old i sell drugs to make money and have cheated on every girl i have dated. hookers & strippers are the way to go they buy the drugs n suck my nob. But still like having a gf on side but cant help but always cheat on them

The State: AS

The Area Code: 4000

Comment Shelby

on 8/20/2016 3:25:13 AM Says

Craig Everett The Cheater:

The Comment: Do not know what to believe anymore..

The State: CA

The Area Code: 93306

Comment Burkini

on 8/19/2016 9:16:00 PM Says

Mae Abou Hamdan The Cheater:

The Comment: keep praying, go on your hands and knees until they bleed. There is no forgivenss YOU. You are still and WHORE and will always be a WHORE... Remember that.

The State: FL

The Area Code: 561

Comment Fyoustupid

on 8/19/2016 2:53:42 PM Says

Jared Skahill The Cheater:

The Comment: Old white pussy who likes to go after married women!!

The State: CA

The Area Code: 909

Comment Lovelylips

on 8/19/2016 4:55:15 AM Says

Chad currie The Cheater:

The Comment: He denies having a private facebook,twitter and instagram he uses Third party apps also guest mode to get on the internet I have seen winks from Asian and Russian dating sites but he still denies it all

The State: CA

The Area Code: 661

Comment Lovelylips

on 8/19/2016 4:43:44 AM Says

Chad currie The Cheater:

The Comment: He tells me he has NO private facebook twitter or instagram he has more than one email address uses Third party apps also guest mode to get on internet in California for Area code661

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Lovelylips

on 8/19/2016 4:38:26 AM Says

Chad currie The Cheater:

The Comment: Tells me he has NO private facebook,Twitter or instagram

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Www

on 8/19/2016 3:06:09 AM Says

Nabil Ismail BoLee The Cheater:

The Comment: I met him online as well. I didn't have sex with him and he stopped all contact after the second date

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment karma1205

on 8/18/2016 11:18:24 AM Says

joe The Cheater:

The Comment: married man..drug addict,big time user....wth dd

The State: MA

The Area Code: 413

Comment karma1205

on 8/18/2016 11:15:09 AM Says

joe pafumi The Cheater:

The Comment: this guy is married has kids and is a complete pig, drug addict, alcoholic who cheats on his family..with men or women very sick, will have sex with any girl mostly nasty lonely ones who will buy him things or money for drugs. He has a beautiful wife and small world out there, I meet joe on chat line and found out his real name and his married with kids...

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Quizze

on 8/18/2016 8:06:04 AM Says

Kristin Shelor Hurley The Cheater:

The Comment: slanderous.... https://www.facebook.com/shelo... .... https://zh-cn.facebook.com/she... .... Who makes up a chinese page to go with the indiana page??? No one but Trolls

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Quizze

on 8/18/2016 8:05:04 AM Says

Kristin Shelor Hurley The Cheater:

The Comment: Fraud ... https://myspace.com/kshelor1

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Ispeakup

on 8/17/2016 4:30:10 PM Says

john adams The Cheater:

The Comment: Ranch of the rockies ranch manàger is a thief, liar, and constantly cheats on his wife. When he is caught, he accuses innocent people of wrongdoing. Many residents of this ranch have fallen victim to him. Victims of john Adams need to call the park county sheriff and make the sheriff aware!

John Adams has stolen from my husband and I, he has used us monetarily when we now know that he has a lot of money.

His wife is no better. Abandoning her two small children and also uses people.

Too many instances to write!

Beware of these two! Everywhere they have lived they leave victims!

The State: CO

The Area Code: 719

Comment sickdude101

on 8/17/2016 4:25:43 PM Says

DARREN   AMBLER The Cheater:

The Comment: HELLO...ALL..






I printed this post out so i can show it to my girlfriend. then we can fry Amblers ass. he may think twice in the future before he takes those pants off.. I may not post again because my husband it may not be a good idea in case my girlfriend wishes to take legal action. thanks girls.

The State: NJ

The Area Code:

Comment Truthabouther

on 8/17/2016 2:11:40 PM Says

Michele wheeler The Cheater:

The Comment: Won't hesitate to jump from one guy to the next to suit her needs with no regard for the other persons feelings. Constantly lives in the past and bases her current relationships on the past ones.

The State: WA

The Area Code: 253

Comment Truthabouther

on 8/17/2016 2:10:01 PM Says

Michele wheeler The Cheater:

The Comment: Won't hesitate to jump from one guy to the next to suit her needs with no regard for the other persons feelings. Constantly lives in the past and bases her current relationships on the past ones.

The State: WA

The Area Code: 253

Comment sickdude101

on 8/17/2016 3:34:33 AM Says

DARREN   AMBLER The Cheater:

The Comment: Hello Ladies..

Thank you to all of you that read my post from yesterday. I was unaware that you coud post anything you write here on Twitter and other networking sites...My husband told me to post it on the social networking websites. Within 5 hours I received three responses.

Thank you God my prayers were answered. This creep Darren Ambler the one that is lying and taking advantage of my girlfriend hopefully will soon be history. As I said yesterday this demented pervert is 20+ years younger than my girfriend. This guy is a sicko.

My girlfriend does not trust him either or she wouldn't have searched his wallet while he was sleeping. God I hope he had clothes on.. Just the thought of that gross site naked. I saw his photo on Faacebook about 4 weeks ago but I looked again and it seems to have disappeared.

She also told me for some reason she copied his Household bank Master card account number on paper. which was in his wallet also. Anyway- Darren Ambler has lied to my friend since day one - he is plain and simple using her. He will get his in the end. He is a pervert and sex maniac.

After I posted yesterdays post I made on this website on 2 social networking websites, i received 3 replies from people who know this jerk. Two of these people are willing to speak to me. I posted publically- then anyone who logs on to those web sites can see it. You don't have to send it to anyone in particular. I can't think about my friend in bed with this ugly pervert. His cheating- lying and using days are coming to an end..

Hopefully by the weekend I will have spoken to these 2 people. Then hopefully I can go to my friend with all the information. One of the persons who replied to me was a woman and one was a guy. I hope they have some real dirt on this freak so i can convince my friend to say goodbye to this snake One person said they would have to get permission to speak to me..I have no idea what that is all about.. Wish me luck all Thanks...

The State: NJ

The Area Code: 215

Comment CindyLove

on 8/16/2016 8:03:05 PM Says

Pete lananna The Cheater:

The Comment: How many girls know him?

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment AVENGER101

on 8/16/2016 2:27:06 PM Says

Richard Gene Brown The Cheater:

The Comment: All ladies consider yourselves warned! Richard Gene Brown

is a wolf in sheep's clothing!

He will break your heart! He goes around pretending he is a single man looking for a good woman when all the time he is just out to deceive, and get laid by as many women as he possibly can. He usually goes after lonely, vulnerable, women, and works overtime trying to win their hearts. He looks for women online, and he tries to pick up women in person. He tells you everything he thinks you want to hear. He wont discuss passed relations if you ask about them. That makes him very uneasy.He won't tell you where he lives, and you can't visit his home even though you've talked to him for a while. He usually does things that are signs of a cheater, but he always tries to lie his way out of it because he is a pathological liar. Watch out! Don't be his next victim!


The State: AR

The Area Code: 71901

Comment sickdude101

on 8/16/2016 10:00:13 AM Says

DARREN   AMBLER The Cheater:

The Comment: I have been suspect of a weird guy my girlfriend has been involved with for few months..I know it is all about sex and I feel she is being used. The persons name is Darren Ambler. I know he has told my friend so many lies from day one. I have no doubt he is cheating and seeing other people.

She used to get defensive when i would mention this creeps name. However- now she seems to be paying more attention. My husband and I firmly believe this creep is a sex maniac. The whole relationship is sick because my girlfriend is decades older than this homely skinny freak. Why doesn't this creep get some women his own age? I am sure he cant. He preys on vunerable lonely females. It makes me sick when I think about my good friend in bed with an ugly sex pervert like this. Shes too good for this loser.

Playing around with a women old enough to be his Mother. what a loser. I would love to have this screw ball arrested. I hope he isn't taking money from my girlfried?

My husband did a little checking. This Darren Ambler apparently has a bit of trouble possibly legally. Also- he has been with multiple women. My husband made a few phone calls and received some very disturbing information.

We may drop in on my friend and the freak one weekend. I feel like cutting off his "Thing"..That little user! He better keep his clothes on in case we unexpectedly drop by some Sunday morning.

My girlfriend took the liberty of going through his pants one morning while he was a sleep. According to his license he lives in Riverside NJ. He is 38 years old. He told my friend he was in his 40's.. What a sicko he has a fettish for old women. I don't know how she stands him his face makes me sick to my gut.

This guy has secrets and skelations in his closet. As i said- I never met him but I saw his picture. That was enough. He looks like he must have worn the "Dunce" hat in school. If he gives my friend any infection I will make sure action is taken against him. This guy has to be insecure or he would not be using women like this. Probably never had a date his whole life until now.

This creep gives my friend attention that is why she is with him. I am sure this Darren Ambler is lonely and desperate. I sware if I knew where his parents were I would call them and tell them their perverted son is sleeping with my girlfriend. A woman in her 60's.

I just spoke with her last week. I think a surprise visit is in order soon. This darren Ambler's days are numbered. I hope someone uses him some day. That homely creep. My husband is a retired Bloomfield NJ police officer. He will know how to handle this predator. I looked it up Riverside is like 2 hours away. Why doesn't this loser find someone in his own neighborhood. I know he has to be hiding this reationship for fear of embarrassment.

Any advice or comments are welcome....Thank you.

The State: NJ

The Area Code: 215

Comment No one is Tru

on 8/16/2016 7:50:29 AM Says

Rodney Jerome Combs The Cheater:

The Comment: My uncle who is now a detective found this site for me. I am floored. Google is life if you utilize it. I was curious about Rodney Combs after his girlfriend Francesica Singleton of Bedford Tx contacted me through his email. She's crazy if she thinks she's in a relationship with him cause he's fucking the world. Most truck drivers are not faithful and being on the road permits them to have multiple relationships. He's no good. Steer clear of this dude unless you want to risk the games and possibly catching something like one of the woman mentioned. This really sad. Francesica is you read this your are super stupid. I wouldn't want what everyone who owns a puss can have. This is crazy.

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment No one is Tru

on 8/16/2016 7:39:47 AM Says

Rodney Jerome Combs The Cheater:

The Comment: I

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment Toxicology

on 8/15/2016 12:39:17 PM Says


The Comment: Kneel and pray, don't think that's going to help u non. Ask for forgiveness, don't think that's going to help u non. Say you'll never do that again, a whore will never change. Pray for protection, that will help u non. Seek inspiration, that will help me non. You are an ass, will always be an ass. Wrinkles are forming take a good look in the mirror. We what look back at ya!

The State: FL

The Area Code: 561

Comment Kaia

on 8/15/2016 11:43:36 AM Says

Mike Landis The Cheater:

The Comment: He is engaged. He is taken.

The State:

The Area Code:

Comment DramaMagnet

on 8/15/2016 11:35:15 AM Says

Johnnyboy rich The Cheater:

The Comment: This man has been carrying on relationships with multiple women for years whenever he is caught his victims are accused of being stalkers or "friends with crushes"... All his relationships are with women hes known years and the women he cheats with are all from dating sites online.. So as not to get caught.. For those who want the truth he will never stop cheating.. For those who deny the truth go around posting slander to protect him.. You can only protect someone so long from lies the truth always wins! Aug. 9th,2016 was when he Johnnyboy1887 chose to become the stalker and show up at my house hoping to deceive. ..and he did..

The State: NM

The Area Code: 505

Comment rm212

on 8/14/2016 10:27:54 PM Says

Emily Jamison The Cheater:

The Comment: This woman is destructive to anything and anyone close to her. STAY AWAY FROM HER AND DO NOT BELIEVE ANYTHING SHE TELLS YOU.

She is severely unstable, with a lengthy past history of bipolar, manic depressive disorder, and anxiety. She has established a consistent pattern of deceiving her partners once they no longer serve her selfish interests. She often denies any wrongdoing, lies outright to her friends and family, or finds a weak justification for whatever / whoever she does. She does not know accountability to herself, let alone to a partner or spouse. She does not know how to own her own thoughts, feelings and actions, and always takes the selfish route out.

- Once cheated on an ex-boyfriend with another man for a few months, and when the boyfriend found out and confronted her (first she denied the claims multiple times, despite him finding hard proof), she told her boyfriend the guy she cheated with had raped her. In actuality, they had consensual sex and she made up the rape claim to explain away what happened to her boyfriend at the time. Now she maintains that the guy who "raped" her is a great friend and wonderful person, and is facebook friends with him as well.

- Once lied to a friend that her then-boyfriend was an abusive drunk who had access to weapons in the home, and that she feared for her livelihood...only for her friend to later find out that he never laid a hand on her.

- Lied to her spouse (!) about a message with another male friend in which she expressed how awesome it was to have sex with people you didn't know (from Tinder, etc.), because it was so freeing and you could just laugh and love without any cares. Put all of the guilt onto her spouse for checking her phone and "violating her privacy."

- Continued to lie to her spouse about her whereabouts and actions, even introducing her TWO-YEAR-OLD SON into that environment and to her horrible lifestyle choices by way of one of her random sexual partners! This was both at her apartment, and at the man's house in a nearby city.

- Continued to lie to her spouse about what she was doing traveling to a nearby city, and continued to introduce her son into compromising environments with her male partners right up through the divorce.

- Knows how to use throwaway / alternate email addresses and prepaid phones in addition to other mechanisms to cover her tracks. Has multiple alternate email accounts she uses.

- Expressed not an ounce of remorse, guilt or regret for having done any of the aforementioned, and continued to contend that she was the better parent for the child, despite putting her selfish needs before the well-being of her spouse, marriage and child.

- Lied to all of her friends and family, who enabled her behavior, even going so far as to have her father call her husband at one point in attempt to reassure him that she wasn't cheating on him with anyone.

This woman is truly a monster and a master manipulator. Stay as far away from her as humanly possible. Do not believe a word that comes out of her mouth. She will lie to your face and not feel a thing about it. And as soon as you no longer fit her needs, she will begin being done with you, in one way or another. She is the destroyer of worlds. Do not invest yourself in this monster in any way/shape/form.

The State: GA

The Area Code: 706/360/206/334

Comment pennsylvaniagirl

on 8/14/2016 5:50:44 PM Says

DARREN   AMBLER The Cheater:

The Comment: I believe Darren Ambler is a Sociopath and needs serious help.......................

Profile of the Sociopath

This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.

•Glibness and Superficial Charm

•Manipulative and Conning

They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.

•Grandiose Sense of Self

Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."

•Pathological Lying

Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.

•Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt

A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.

•Shallow Emotions

When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.

•Incapacity for Love

•Need for Stimulation

Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.

•Callousness/Lack of Empathy

Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.

•Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature

Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.

•Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency

Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.


Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.

•Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity

Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.

•Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle

Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.

•Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility

Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

Other Related Qualities:

1.Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them

2.Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them




6.Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired

7.Conventional appearance

8.Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)

9.Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life

10.Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)

11.Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim

12.Incapable of real human attachment to another

13.Unable to feel remorse or guilt

14.Extreme narcissism and grandiose

15.May state readily that their goal is to rule the world

(The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare.)

NOTE: In the 1830's this disorder was called "moral insanity." By 1900 it was changed to "psychopathic personality." More recently it has been termed "antisocial personality disorder" in the DSM-III and DSM-IV. Some critics have complained that, in the attempt to rely only on 'objective' criteria, the DSM has broadened the concept to include too many individuals. The APD category includes people who commit illegal, immoral or self-serving acts for a variety of reasons and are not necessarily psychopaths.

DSM-IV Definition

Antisocial personality disorder is characterized by a lack of regard for the moral or legal standards in the local culture. There is a marked inability to get along with others or abide by societal rules. Individuals with this disorder are sometimes called psychopaths or sociopaths.

Diagnostic Criteria (DSM-IV)

1. Since the age of fifteen there has been a disregard for and violation of the right's of others, those right's considered normal by the local culture, as indicated by at least three of the following:

A. Repeated acts that could lead to arrest.

B. Conning for pleasure or profit, repeated lying, or the use of aliases.

C. Failure to plan ahead or being impulsive.

D. Repeated assaults on others.

E. Reckless when it comes to their or others safety.

F. Poor work behavior or failure to honor financial obligations.

G. Rationalizing the pain they inflict on others.

2. At least eighteen years in age.

3. Evidence of a Conduct Disorder, with its onset before the age of fifteen.

4. Symptoms not due to another mental disorder.

Antisocial Personality Disorder Overview (Written by Derek Wood, RN, BSN, PhD Candidate)

Antisocial Personality Disorder results in what is commonly known as a Sociopath. The criteria for this disorder require an ongoing disregard for the rights of others, since the age of 15 years. Some examples of this disregard are reckless disregard for the safety of themselves or others, failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors, deceitfulness such as repeated lying or deceit for personal profit or pleasure, and lack of remorse for actions that hurt other people in any way. Additionally, they must have evidenced a Conduct Disorder before the age of 15 years, and must be at least 18 years old to receive this diagnosis.

People with this disorder appear to be charming at times, and make relationships, but to them, these are relationships in name only. They are ended whenever necessary or when it suits them, and the relationships are without depth or meaning, including marriages. They seem to have an innate ability to find the weakness in people, and are ready to use these weaknesses to their own ends through deceit, manipulation, or intimidation, and gain pleasure from doing so.

They appear to be incapable of any true emotions, from love to shame to guilt. They are quick to anger, but just as quick to let it go, without holding grudges. No matter what emotion they state they have, it has no bearing on their future actions or attitudes.

They rarely are able to have jobs that last for any length of time, as they become easily bored, instead needing constant change. They live for the moment, forgetting the past, and not planning the future, not thinking ahead what consequences their actions will have. They want immediate rewards and gratification. There currently is no form of psychotherapy that works with those with antisocial personality disorder, as those with this disorder have no desire to change themselves, which is a prerequisite. No medication is available either. The only treatment is the prevention of the disorder in the early stages, when a child first begins to show the symptoms of conduct disorder.

THE PSYCHOPATH NEXT DOOR (Source: http://chericola57.tripod.com/infinite.html)

Psychopath. We hear the word and images of Bernardo, Manson and Dahmer pop into our heads; no doubt Ted Bundy too. But they're the bottom of the barrel -- most of the two million psychopaths in North America aren't murderers. They're our friends, lovers and co-workers. They're outgoing and persuasive, dazzling you with charm and flattery. Often you aren't even aware they've taken you for a ride -- until it's too late.

Psychopaths exhibit a Jekyll and Hyde personality. "They play a part so they can get what they want," says Dr. Sheila Willson, a Toronto psychologist who has helped victims of psychopaths. The guy who showers a woman with excessive attention is much more capable of getting her to lend him money, and to put up with him when he strays. The new employee who gains her co-workers' trust has more access to their chequebooks. And so on. Psychopaths have no conscience and their only goal is self-gratification. Many of us have been their victims -- at work, through friendships or relationships -- and not one of us can say, "a psychopath could never fool me."

Think you can spot one? Think again. In general, psychopaths aren't the product of broken homes or the casualties of a materialistic society. Rather they come from all walks of life and there is little evidence that their upbringing affects them. Elements of a psychopath's personality first become evident at a very early age, due to biological or genetic factors. Explains Michael Seto, a psychologist at the Centre for Addiction and Mental health in Toronto, by the time that a person hits their late teens, the disorder is almost certainly permanent. Although many clinicians use the terms psychopath and sociopath interchangeably, writes psychopath expert Robert Hare on his book 'Without Conscience', a sociopath's criminal behavior is shaped by social forces and is the result of a dysfunctional environment.

Psychopaths have only a shallow range of emotions and lack guilt, says Hare. They often see themselves as victims, and lack remorse or the ability to empathize with others. "Psychopaths play on the fact that most of us are trusting and forgiving people," adds Seto. The warning signs are always there; it's just difficult to see them because once we trust someone, the friendship becomes a blinder.

Even lovers get taken for a ride by psychopaths. For a psychopath, a romantic relationship is just another opportunity to find a trusting partner who will buy into the lies. It's primarily why a psychopath rarely stays in a relationship for the long term, and often is involved with three or four partners at once, says Willson. To a psychopath, everything about a relationship is a game. Willson refers to the movie 'Sliding Doors' to illustrate her point. In the film, the main character comes home early after just having been fired from her job. Only moments ago, her boyfriend has let another woman out the front door. But in a matter of minutes he is the attentive and concerned boyfriend, taking her out to dinner and devoting the entire night to comforting her. All the while he's planning to leave the next day on a trip with the other woman.

The boyfriend displays typical psychopathic characteristics because he falsely displays deep emotion toward the relationship, says Willson. In reality, he's less concerned with his girlfriend's depression than with making sure she's clueless about the other woman's existence. In the romance department, psychopaths have an ability to gain your affection quickly, disarming you with words, intriguing you with grandiose plans. If they cheat you'll forgive them, and one day when they've gone too far, they'll leave you with a broken heart (and an empty wallet). By then they'll have a new player for their game.

The problem with their game is that we don't often play by their rules. Where we might occasionally tell a white lie, a psychopath's lying is compulsive. Most of us experience some degree of guilt about lying, preventing us from exhibiting such behavior on a regular basis. "Psychopaths don't discriminate who it is they lie to or cheat," says Seto. "There's no distinction between friend, family and sucker."

No one wants to be the sucker, so how do we prevent ourselves from becoming close friends or getting into a relationship with a psychopath? It's really almost impossible, say Seto and Willson. Unfortunately, laments Seto, one way is to become more suspicious and less trusting of others. Our tendency is to forgive when we catch a loved one in a lie. "Psychopaths play on this fact," he says. "However, I'm certainly not advocating a world where if someone lies once or twice, you never speak to them again." What you can do is look at how often someone lies and how they react when caught. Psychopaths will lie over and over again, and where other people would sincerely apologize, a psychopath may apologize but won't stop.

Psychopaths also tend to switch jobs as frequently as they switch partners, mainly because they don't have the qualities to maintain a job for the long haul. Their performance is generally erratic, with chronic absences, misuse of company resources and failed commitments. Often they aren't even qualified for the job and use fake credentials to get it. Seto talks of a patient who would get marketing jobs based on his image; he was a presentable and charming man who layered his conversations with educational and occupational references. But it became evident that the man hadn't a clue what he was talking about, and was unable to hold down a job.

How do you make sure you don't get fooled when you're hiring someone to baby-sit your child or for any other job? Hire based on reputation and not image, says Willson. Check references thoroughly. Psychopaths tend to give vague and inconsistent replies. Of course the best way to solve this problem would be to cure psychopaths of their 'illness.' But there's no recipe for treating them, say psychiatrists. Today's traditional methods of psychotherapy (psychoanalysis, group and one-on-one therapy) and drug treatments have failed. Therapy is more likely to work when an individual admits there's a problem and wants to change. The common problem with psychopaths, says Sets, "Is they don't see a problem with their behavior."

Psychopaths don't seek therapy willingly, says Seto. Rather, they're pushed into it by a desperate relative or by a court order. To a psychopath, a therapist is just one more person who must be conned, and the psychopath plays the part right until the therapist is convinced of his or her 'rehabilitation.'

Even though we can't treat psychopaths effectively with therapy, it doesn't mean we can't protect ourselves, writes Hare. Willson agrees, citing the most important factor in keeping psychopaths at bay is to know your vulnerabilities. We need to "realize our own potential and maximize our strengths" so that our insecurities don't overcome us. Because, she says, a psychopath is a chameleon who becomes "an image of what you haven't done for yourself." Over time, she says, "their appearance of perfection will begin to crack," but by that time you will have been emotionally and perhaps financially scathed. There comes a time when you realize there's no point in searching for answers; the only thing is to move on.

Taken in part from MW -- By Caroline Konrad -- September 1999


These people are mentally ill and extremely dangerous! The following precautions will help to protect you from the destructive acts of which they are capable.

First, to recognize them, keep the following guidelines in mind.

(1) They are habitual liars. They seem incapable of either knowing or telling the truth about anything.

(2) They are egotistical to the point of narcissism. They really believe they are set apart from the rest of humanity by some special grace.

(3) They scapegoat; they are incapable of either having the insight or willingness to accept responsibility for anything they do. Whatever the problem, it is always someone else's fault.

(4) They are remorselessly vindictive when thwarted or exposed.

(5) Genuine religious, moral, or other values play no part in their lives. They have no empathy for others and are capable of violence. Under older psychological terminology, they fall into the category of psychopath or sociopath, but unlike the typical psychopath, their behavior is masked by a superficial social facade.

If you have come into conflict with such a person or persons, do the following immediately!

(1) Notify your friends and relatives of what has happened.

Do not be vague. Name names, and specify dates and circumstances. Identify witnesses if possible and provide supporting documentation if any is available.

(2) Inform the police. The police will do nothing with this information except to keep it on file, since they are powerless to act until a crime has been committed. Unfortunately, that often is usually too late for the victim. Nevertheless, place the information in their hands.

Obviously, if you are assaulted or threatened before witnesses, you can get a restraining order, but those are palliative at best.

(3) Local law enforcement agencies are usually under pressure if wealthy or politically powerful individuals are involved, so include state and federal agencies as well and tell the locals that you have. In my own experience, one agency that can help in a pinch is the Criminal Investigation Division of the Internal Revenue Service or (in Canada) Victims Services at your local police unit. It is not easy to think of the IRS as a potential friend, but a Swedish study showed that malignant types (the Swedes called them bullies) usually commit some felony or other by the age of twenty. If the family is wealthy, the fact may never come to light, but many felonies involve tax evasion, and in such cases, the IRS is interested indeed. If large amounts of money are involved, the IRS may solve all your problems for you. For obvious reasons the Drug Enforcement Agency may also be an appropriate agency to approach. The FBI is an important agency to contact, because although the FBI does not have jurisdiction over murder or assault, if informed, they do have an active interest in any other law enforcement agencies that do not follow through with an honest investigation and prosecution should a murder occur. Civil rights are involved at that point. No local crooked lawyer, judge, or corrupt police official wants to be within a country mile if that comes to light! It is in such cases that wealthy psychopaths discover just how firm the "friends" they count on to cover up for them really are! Even some of the drug cartel biggies will scuttle for cover if someone picks up the brick their thugs hide under. Exposure is bad for business.

(4) Make sure that several of your friends have the information in the event something happens to you. That way, an appropriate investigation will follow if you are harmed. Don't tell other people who has the information, because then something bad could happen to them as well. Instruct friends to take such an incident to the newspapers and other media.

If you are dealing with someone who has considerable money, you must realize that they probably won't try to harm you themselves, they will contract with someone to make the hit. The malignant type is a coward and will not expose himself or herself to personal danger if he or she can avoid it.

Update: A thorough article. You may also find more at http://sociopathworld.com/.

I, the creator of this site, am not a psychologist and have no special expertise in the subject. I created the site as a public service, because no similar site existed in 2003. I occasionally get sad calls and emails. I urge you to consult either a clinical psychologist or the police depending on the problem you face, and wish you good luck.

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Comment pennsylvaniagirl

on 8/14/2016 5:48:03 PM Says

DARREN   AMBLER The Cheater:

The Comment: HELLO;

This whole situation is growing more frustrating and I am angry. I had a relationship with Darren Ambler a few moths ago: I established it was for sex only. I deeply regret every moment or lousy sexual experience i had with this "Freak".

Yes- It takes two to tango but I felt pressured by someone who was sexually frustrated and wanted sex so bad he would do anything. He was weird; I never had a guy tell me he trimmed his pubic hair for me. He should not have bothered he was "Horrible" in bed.

I just want to put this poor excuse for a man out of mind forever. BUT this creep apparently is in some kind of trouble and it does n't seem he is handling the situation. IHe best handle any issues he got himsellf into and leave me out of it. if not he will cause great disruption in my life and I guess I have no choice but to become involved.

Ladies- do you really think this over- sexed creep wants his dirty laundry aired in public- it seems that it is leaning that way. Darren Ambler has serious problems. He was so insecure- lonely- possibly suffering from mental illness. He was obsessed with sex and loved oral sex! He scared me at times because he had no boundaries or conception of right or wrong.

Darren from what I saw had "Zero" morals or any kind of breeding. Almost like life is all about sex- immorality- screwing and doing whatever you want. He had no feeling or care for anyone not even himself. I am angry because I told a few of my girlfriends and they are convinced he is a predator. Darren Ambler uses women for sex. He is an immoral scum. My Girlfriend saw his profile on Meet me. I tried to find it last night but he may have deleted it. I feel sorry for his current girlfriend. Darren is using her just like he used all the others. I wish I could tell my story without my man finding out.

He obviously was seeking to fill some mental void in his pathetic life. He lied to me about so many things.. I know he screwed other women when he was with me. How dare he that funny looking weezle with glasses. I wouldn't brag about myself if i were him. he was nothing to offer any woman except his insecurity- skinny boney body- absolutely no ass- his wang wang was hard to see; you get my drift. That breath would kill a horse.

I know he had sex with other women and he is still on the hunt. He was disgusting. Homely- no body- the sex was horrible. He was such a manipulator. Now- I have a real man- Handsome- Masculine- deep voice- a nice body- a beautiful front and he does not trim hairs- no normal man does.

I guess it disturbs me that I heard he is or was sleeping with a 60+ year old woman who lives outside of New York City. That is gross- sick and demented behavior. I guess that is all Darren can get. A 39 year old mentally ill man screwing a old woman . this dude is sicker than when I was with him. I was told because of her age everytime he sticks that wang wang in her that can be elder abuse. Maybe he needs to go to jail. Creepy Jerk.

I guess I learned a lesson- having sex with a nut like Darren Ambler can mess your life up and I would never do that again. I must have been very vulnerable to get into bed with horse breath. Just to know there are creeps like him wandering around in society makes me sick. is that all he lives for is sex and dirty filthy sex acts..Darren Ambler needs extensive therapy and he needs to grow up big time. I know anger eats you up inside but I think venting on this forum has helped me very much.

I am sharing this post on Twitter and Facebook. Maybe it will help someone. Maybe it will save Darren's next potential sex victim from a lot of pain and heartache. How would darren Ambler like to be used and disgarded afterward like trash? I hope he gets it back 10 fold. Darren Ambler you are a ni "Good" bed Hopper- Liar- Ugly - Trash. There I spoke the truth something you know nothing about.

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